Couples Counseling in OKC

Couples & Marriage Counseling in OKC

Online Marriage & Couples Counseling in OKC for couples who what to deeply connect and communicate assertively.

Couple talking to each other on a couch as they prepare for couples counseling OKC

You love each other But You feel stuck

You love your partner but something isn’t working anymore.  There is a feeling of disconnection between the two of you.  The times you try to talk to one another are more exhausting and frustrating. You notice yourself having a harder time opening up.  It seems like no matter how hard you try things aren’t improving. 

THings used to be different

The two of you think back to when you first got together and remember fondly how fun and adventurous you were together, how desirous of a look you could give each other and just how easily things seemed to flow between you. Time has passed and things have changed even if you don’t quite know what it is.  You’re unsure of what to do but you know that this is not a relationship you get excited about.

You’ve tried is all with little success

You and your partner have talked about how things have changed between the two of you.   You’ve promised to do better, that things will change and this stress with pass. Podcast get listened to, books and blogs are read and for a time things shift. For a time things do improve but inevitability the improvements don’t last as long as you’d like. You two find yourselves in a similar place to where you used to be.  

Couple struggling to communicate with one another as they prepare for couples counseling in OKC
Couple looking at each other and smiling after working through issues in counseling

YOU want Couples counseling to give you hope that things Can Change

Attending couples counseling makes you feel nervous because you are worried about what will happen and if anything can help. You also have the thought that you’re problems aren’t that big and couples counseling might be “too much”.  At the same time you know that if you had a guide and were able to learn better skill to deeply connect with your partner life would drastically improve.  

It’s time to stop trying to figure it out on your own. Both of you want to find a therapist that both of you feel safe talking to, who understands where both of you are coming from and can guide you towards a more supportive and vulnerable connection. 

Let's Move towards a relationship you can delight in again!

I’m B & I’m ready to learn about you relationship and help elevate it!  I work with couples just like you. During our time together you will how to communicate more opening and vulnerably with one another. Together we map out your patterns of communication, identifying what’s working and what needs to get the F*** out. I help each of you gain clarity on the relationship you have and create a clear vision of the relationship you want. 

My client’s work with me weekly to get the support they need to make sustainable changes in their relationship. My extensive training in Emotionally Focused Therapy is used to guide you to turn towards each other with more vulnerability, support and create connection even through disagreements.  I use movement, breathwork and brainspotting to give you resources to practice outside our time together.  You will be seen, challenged and celebrated as you move through your couples journey.

If you and your partner are ready to move closer towards a relationship you get excited to go home to then book your free discovery call with me.  I want to help you uncover the transformative potential of therapy, guided by a clear plan and the expertise of the right therapist, which can help you now, tomorrow and well into your future.

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Take the next step towards transformation.

Couples Counseling is right for you if:

You:

  • Usually are the first to voice concerns about the relationship.
  • Struggle to feel taken seriously.
  • Feel the need to get big for your partner to respond. 
  • Desire deep emotional connection and safety. 


Your partner:

  • Struggles to identify and express their feelings.
  • Spends more time processing than communicating.
  • Wants to be heard but struggles to feel seen.
  • Desires to fix things but doesn’t know what to do.
 
 

You are not alone in your struggles and it’s time that it starts feeling that way. Stop taking this journey on your own, book your free discovery call. Let’s take this next step together.

How to start Couples Counseling in OKC?

Step One:

Set up a time to chat with me. Both, you and your partner will get a separate discovery call with me. 

I want to hear from each of you about what you are experiencing and see if you feel like you can talk to me. 

Step Two:

Both of you decide that couples with me is the right next step. We schedule a 90 minute intake session.

An email confirmation with counseling paperwork attached is sent to you.

Step Three:

You two fill out paperwork with as much detail as possible. This helps us hit the ground running.

At the time of your appointment, you follow the link sent to you. We met and create a plan for our work together.

Schedule your Free Discovery Call

Reach out today to get Support for your relationship.

When you are ready, I’m here to see you for couples counseling in Oklahoma City, Edmond and throughout the state of Oklahoma.