Couples Counseling in Edmond
In-person Counseling for monogamous Couples who want to connect with more ease & less overwhelm.
You love each other but feel disconnected
You two don’t feel as connected as you have been in the past. You have shared fun times together and still do but there have also been more times when you two can’t seem to work through serious issues. You are having a hard time talking to your partner, feeling heard and struggling to feel like any issue gets resolved.
Things used to be easier
The two of you think back to when you first got together and remember fondly how fun and adventurous you were together, how desirous of a look you could give each other and just how easily things seemed to flow between you. Time has gone by and those memories feel distant. You don’t know what to do but you do know that the way the relationship is now is not a relationship you get excited about.
You’ve tried to fix it but not much seems to get resolved
You’ve tried talking to your partner by trying to approach them calmly. You’ve even read books on how to communicate in a way that allows them to listen but you end up feeling like no matter how you approach them it doesn’t work. Your partner often gets quiet and has a hard time bringing up their problems or even letting you know how they feel. You know that they care about you but at the same time both of you are wondering when the relationship became so hard.
YOU HAVE DOUBTS AROUND GOING TO COUPLES COUNSELING BUT ALSO NEED CHANGE
You two are nervous about attending couples counseling because you are worried about what will happen and if anything can help. You deeply desire to have a relationship that feels easier and craving a deeper emotional connection. You want to find a therapist that both of you feel safe talking to, who understands where both of you are coming from and can guide you towards a more supportive and vulnerable connection.
Let's Find Move towards a relationship you can delight in again
I’m Beatriz Stanley and I work with many couples who find themselves in the same place as you. During our time in therapy you will experience changes in how you communicate and relate to one another. Together we map out your patterns of communication, what is working well and where you meet hurdles. I work with each of you to help you gain clarity on the relationship you have and create a clear vision of the relationship you want.
My client’s work with me weekly to get the support they need to create a relationship that adds to their lives. I use my extensive training in Emotionally Focused Therapy to guide you to turn towards each other with more vulnerability, support and creating connection even through disagreements. I often use movement, breathwork and brainspotting to give you resources to practice outside our time together. You will get homework to complete as a couple and individually, so that we can create the changes you seek. We will also spend our time laughing and cheering for the brave steps you are taking.
You and your partner are ready to move closer towards a relationship you delight in and get excited to go home to then book your free discovery call with me. I want to help you uncover the transformative potential of therapy, guided by a clear plan and the expertise of the right therapist, which can help you now, tomorrow and well into your future.
You're in the right place if you:
You identify with:
- Usually being the one to bring up issues in the relationship..
- Struggling to manage the amount of silence in the relationship.
- Feeling the need to get big to get your partner to respond.
- Desiring deep emotional connection.
Your partner identifies with:
- Struggling to express their emotions.
- Often gets quiet during harder conversations..
- Wanting things fixed but the work feels daunting.
- Desiring for the relationship to feel easier.
You are not alone in your struggles and it’s time that it starts feeling that way. Stop taking this journey on your own, book your free discovery call. Let’s take this next step together.
