Relationship Counseling in OKC for Physical Intimacy
Counseling for Couples who
want a healthier sex life
Counseling for Couples who need a better sexual experience
Let's Talk About Sex, Baby
You and your partner are not on the same page when it comes to physical intimacy.
You aren’t sure what has happened but sex isn’t flowing like it used to. This lack of physical connection is creating a wedge in your relationship that is breeding resentment.
One of you wants more of it. While your partner does not seem interested.
Sex isn't Satifiying Either of You
You and your partner have gotten in a pattern when it comes to sex.
One of you requests sex craving the physical connection and intimacy. While the other feels trapped between placating and saying no without starting an argument.
Sex rarely means a good time and instead feels like a land mine you inevitably step on.
Regardless of where you’re at, NEITHER of you feel satisfied with your sex life.
You Want to Enjoy the Physical But Don't Know How
You’ve tried talking about, you’ve even scheduled sex, but nothing allows it to be organic, free flowing and fun. Sex should be fun, right?
You notice yourselves tiptoeing around this topic.
You feel rejected and alone worried that this part of your relationship is over.
You want both you and your partner to be present and enjoying physical touch and intercourse but you don’t know how to make that happen.
You need a Physical Relationship That Sparks
You want to have a physical connection. Both of you want to be able to have touch as part of the relationship without it leading to frustrations, distance and long moments of “coldness” in the relationship.
What you really want is for anything from a hug to the steamiest sex scene to be available for discussion or action 😉 without one of you fleeing the scene.
Let's Spice Up Your Relationship.
Hi, I’m B, and I’m here to help you rediscover the joy of sex. I help couples just like you get more out of their sex lives and learn how to create strong intimate connection.
Couples that work with me learn how to communicate openly about sex, better understand their sex gas petals and breaks while learning to foster the depth and vulnerability needed to stay present and connected.
I use my training in Emotionally Focused Therapy and Brainspotting to help you and your partner move beyond sex as the issue and learn to address everything underneath this physical need.
You and your partner are ready to move away from sexual frustraion so, book your free discovery call with me.
What sets Beatriz Stanley apart as a Couples therapist for Physical Initmacy?
I’m constantly learning new ways to improve outcomes for the couples I work with.
I have no problem calling it like it is and guiding you and your partner towards healthier ways of relating.
I’m not here for the blame game, we are going to dive deep and look at what’s really keeping intimate connection at bay.
Open notes, from your goals to session notes, you get it all after each session.
My Credentials & Experience
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist
M.S. Human Development & Family Sciences
OK Association of Marriage & Family Therapy Member
Certified Prepare/Enrich Facilitator
Certified Brainspotting Practioner
American Association of Marriage & Family Therapy Member
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist
M.S. Human Development & Family Sciences
OK Association of Marriage & Family Therapy Member
Certified Prepare/Enrich Facilitator
Certified Brainspotting Practioner
American Association of Marriage & Family Therapy Member
Training in:
Couples Communication and Intimacy
Emotionally Focused Therapy
Meditation and Mindfulness
Art therapy
Trauma Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
250+ Hours of Trauma Focused Yoga
Anxiety, OCD and Panic Attacks
Brainspotting Phase I, II & Expansion
Couples Communication and Intimacy
Emotionally Focused Therapy
Meditation and Mindfulness
Art therapy
Trauma Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
250+ Hours of Trauma Focused Yoga
Anxiety, OCD and Panic Attacks
Brainspotting Phase I, II & Expansion
Beatriz is so good at what she does! She really helped us learn how to connect.
-Past Client
You're repeating the same patterns in your relationship
Your talks are exhausting
Both of you keep trying to address the issue of sex but it doesn’t resolve things for long. You end up frustrated, unheard, exhausted and without any long-term solutions.
Sex Isn't Fun
The times of fun and carefree sex are few and far between while seeming to take more effort to create. You miss the effortless joy that kept this from being a chore.
You're Still Stuck
The more these issues continue the more they fester and you notice yourself responding with more blame, judgement and loud silences. You are tired of the sexual rejection, lack of desire and physical disconnect.
What You really want from Relationship Counseling OKC for Physical Intimacy
Deep Connection
You and your partner want to be able to share openly with each other. You want to address emotions and needs around your physical connection.
Emotional Safety
Both of you want sex to be approached in a way that both of you can address what you need and desire while feeling closer to one another.
Greater Intimacy
The two of you want to experience that longing again to initiate, reach towards and show up that allows you both more sexual satisfaction.
What's keeping you from starting Relationship Counseling OKC?
You're worried about talking to a stranger
I get it! Despite the increase in advocating for mental health there is still a lot of shame and taboo especially around a relationship. There is a reason that people often struggle to tell others about relationship woes. Your relationship hasn’t failed because you are getting counseling. You are doing what is needed for it to thrive, you wouldn’t criticize someone for seeing a doctor. And I’m not here to criticize you or your relationship.
I'm Smart so I should be able to figure it out
All the couple’s I’ve ever worked with are smart and often times great problem solvers! Despite these skills they still feel stuck. I want you to know that your intelligence doesn’t preclude you from benefiting from getting help with relational blocks. Few of us, are given the tools to navigate relationships in a healthy and sustainable way.
You've already spent too long trying to "fix" it
You don’t need more evidence that this isn’t working.
You’re here because you want to look at your partner with desire, you want that ooey gooey feeling.
You are tired of the sexual tension, frustration and walking around on eggshells when it comes to the physical aspect of your relationship.
It’s time for sex to stop being a chore and become the intimate experience is can be.
Book a free 15 minute discovery call with me.
FAQ about Relationship Counseling OKC
How long does it take for couples counseling to work?
Many feel reliefs after the discovery call, couples counseling starts instilling hope that through professional support the relationship can transform. For others, they start to feel empowered as they better understand their needs, learn how to hold emotionally safe space for their partner and see shifts in the support they feel in teir relationship.
How often do couples meet with you for counseling?
Couples meet for 90 minutes weekly so that we have plenty of space to get to the crux of the issue instead of just addressing symptoms.
Do you do couples therapy online?
Yes, your sessions are online for your convenience.
What couples work best with you for counseling around sex?
Couples that work best with be are willing to be open and honest about their relationship. They aren’t here just to try to have more sex they are invested in understanding why sex has become an issue. The couples I work with are open to trying new things and committed to connecting on a deeper level.
Do you work with LGBTQIA+ Couples?
Yes.
Relationship Counseling OKC
For Increased Physical Intimacy
If your a couple that’s tired of sex being avoided, feeling rejected and disconnected then reach out.